Adoption is important to our family, and, truth is, it has been for a long time now. The definition of adoption found in the dictionary says something about “choosing or taking as one’s own” and by this definition, there are many who have been adopted into our family even before Cora and Elias. There are many grandparents, aunts, uncles, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters who bear no blood relation to us but who are family to us nonetheless. This bond of love draws together unrelated things (in this case, people), and offers whatever it has (physical, mental, emotional) for the well being and wholeness of the other. It is life-giving and essential to our growth and development. Adoptive family is powerful, and we all need the sense of security that comes from being known, and loved, and part of something bigger than ourselves. We have experienced this reality ourselves, and we love extending that same reality to others whenever and however possible. Will you join us in doing the same?
You can start by joining in the celebration of the first World Adoption Day next week. To find out how you can participate, click here: http://worldadoptionday.org
May the world be changed and challenged and a little more beautiful as we celebrate a love that sees, knows, chooses, and embraces. It doesn’t get much better than that.
Also big news today (and a sign of increasingly better health), Cora cut a tooth! That makes three teeth in total. Watch out developmental delays… your days are numbered here! We are comin’ after you.
This morning the twins wandered to another room of the house and started playing with toys while I cleaned up from breakfast. That might seem “normal” for most two-year-old kids, but for the last few weeks my kids have been following me around the house whining if I tried to get anything done. The fact that they are starting to venture out a little bit on their own is a sign that they are feeling more comfortable in our home and that they are feeling more securely attached to me. It’s good news.
It’s also good news because it means I can get a few things done around the house (hopefully).
Feeling thankful, humbled, taken care of, energized and something slightly past exhausted. Thank you to our community of family and friends who made our homecoming so special. I literally am at a lack for the right words to describe just how much your love, care and support (expressed in so many different ways) means to us during this time. Thank you. I’m excited to share more of our homecoming story with you later, but tonight’s priorities are in getting settled and prepped for the rest of the week. It’s a big day tomorrow- Macy and Owen’s first day of school! These two have been such troopers for these last 7 weeks, making so many sacrifices without complaining, that I’m making their first day back a little extra special this year. The table is decorated and the red plates are out. I can’t wait to have some fun celebrating their first day. #reallifefeelssogood #returntonormal
Celebrated our last night here with this family that has literally held us together for the last 7 weeks. They have helped us get settled, provided meals, driven us on errands, introduced us to friends, tagged along with us on outings (and included us in their own outings), been our photographers, printers, conversation partners, and encouragers.
We have celebrated 6 birthdays together between our families in the last 7 weeks and have seen each other through more transitional times in the lives of our families than is normal in such a short period of time. This family has challenged our idea about what it means to be a neighbor. We could not have made it without them. Thank you Homeyers.
At Samurai sushi on Ggaba Rd. If you are ever in town, go there. You’ll be glad you did.
The twin’s turned 2 today. Here are a couple highlights from the day:
Elias feeds Cora some pancake at Prunes.
Family boda-boda ride to dinner. Note the irony: for Owen’s bday we rode horses. For the twins’ we rode bodas. Seemed like a good way to embrace and immerse ourselves in the twins’ culture while having a little fun. The kids LOVED it. (That’s Adam riding backwards with the go-pro to fully capture the experience. Footage will be used for our full-length adoption documentary, ha)
This, probably the best moment of the day (though it was hard to capture on film because we were outside in the dark). The expressions on Cora and Elias’ faces while we sang Happy Birthday to them were priceless to say the least. They are starting to get a taste for how loved they are.
I’m comin home, I’m comin home, tell the world I’m comin home.
Good news for the Ludwig fam. We are headed home!!!! We had our immigration interview at the embassy today and they granted the twins their visas (which will be ready for pick up on Friday). We will fly out Sunday and arrive home on Monday morning. We are thrilled.